Planning your wedding should be exciting—not overwhelming. And while there’s a lot to juggle, one of the best ways to reduce wedding day stress is to have a timeline that works for you, not against you. I’m not just talking about making sure the cake gets cut on time or the speeches don’t drag on (though those matter, too). I’m talking about a couple-focused timeline—one that allows you to soak in the day, feel every moment, and still get the stunning photos you’ve dreamed about.


As a wedding photographer with years of experience capturing everything from teary-eyed first looks to barefoot sunset dances, I’ve learned that the best timelines are the ones that reflect you. And the best part? You don’t have to figure it out on your own.


Here’s how to build a timeline that’s calm, intentional, and full of heart—with a few tips from someone who’s seen it all.


1. Start with the Moments that Matter to You


Before we talk logistics, think about the parts of the day you’re most excited for. Is it that quiet first look before the ceremony? A laid-back cocktail hour where you can mingle with your people? A golden-hour walk with just the two of you during the reception?


When we build your timeline, we'll anchor it around those moments. Everything else can fall into place once I know what really matters to you.


2. Build in Breathing Room


One of the most common causes of stress on a wedding day? A packed timeline with zero wiggle room. Between getting ready, traveling between venues, and rounding up family for portraits, things almost always take longer than expected.


That’s why I help you plan a timeline that feels generous. We’ll pad in time for transitions, unexpected delays, and a few quiet moments for you two to breathe. (Trust me—you’ll thank yourself later.)


3. First Look = Less Stress, More Time Together


A first look isn’t just a sweet, emotional moment—it’s also a game changer for your timeline. Seeing each other before the ceremony allows us to capture couple portraits, wedding party photos, and even some family shots ahead of time. That means more time to relax and enjoy after the ceremony, and less pressure to cram everything into cocktail hour.


Of course, if you’re set on a traditional aisle reveal, we’ll plan around that, too. Either way, we’ll make sure you get beautiful photos without feeling rushed.


4. Let’s Talk Light (and Why It Matters)


As your photographer, I’ll help you think about lighting when we build your timeline. Natural light can completely transform your photos, especially during golden hour—the dreamy, glowy light right before sunset.


I’ll help you find the best time of day for portraits, so you get soft, flattering light and images that feel romantic and timeless. (And yes, we’ll work this in without cutting into your dinner or dance party.)


5. How I Help Craft a Calm, Couple-Focused Timeline


One of the most valuable things I bring to the table—beyond the camera—is my experience. I’ve photographed many weddings in all kinds of locations, light conditions, and situations. That means I’ve learned what works, what doesn’t, and how to keep the day flowing smoothly without losing the magic.


When we work together, I don’t just show up on the wedding day—I’m in your corner from the start. I’ll help you create a timeline that reflects your unique love story, leaves space for real connection, and gives you the freedom to enjoy the day you’ve been dreaming about.


Whether you’re planning a backyard celebration or a ballroom wedding, I’ll walk you through how to structure the day in a way that feels authentic, relaxed, and totally you.


Ready to Ditch the Stress?

If you're overwhelmed by the idea of fitting everything into one day, take a deep breath—you don’t have to figure it out alone. I’m here to guide you, support you, and help you make space for the moments that matter most.

Let’s create a timeline that lets you feel present, connected, and fully in love—with each other and your day.